Learn AA Step 7: Humbly Ask Your Hig...

AA Step 7: Humbly Ask Your Higher Power to Remove Your Shortcomings

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Stacy Mosel, LCSW
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Stacy Mosel, LCSW
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Stacy Mosel is a licensed social worker, psychotherapist, and substance abuse specialist. After receiving a Bachelor's degree in Music from the State University of New York at Stony Brook, she continued her studies at New York University, earning a Master's of Social Work degree in 2002.

Updated July 14, 2025
Key Points
  • Step 7 of AA focuses on cultivating humility so you can ask your higher power to remove your shortcomings.
  • Research supports AA's effectiveness, with a Cochrane Review finding 42% of participants remained abstinent at one year.
  • Working with a sponsor and engaging in reflection, prayer, or meditation can help you complete Step 7.
  • Completing Step 7 prepares you for Step 8, where you begin making amends with those you have harmed.

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a widely used approach that can help people achieve and maintain recovery from alcohol addiction, also known as alcohol use disorder (AUD). Research supports AA's effectiveness, with one review finding that 42% of participants remained abstinent after one year.1 In this article, we’ll walk you through Step 7 and what it can look like in practice.

What Is Step 7 of AA?

Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

Step 7 of Alcoholics Anonymous states: “Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.”2

This Step focuses on practicing humility and recognizing that lasting change often requires support beyond your own efforts. Rather than trying to control or fix everything yourself, Step 7 encourages you to let go of ego and ask your higher power for help in releasing harmful patterns. It builds on the willingness developed in Step 6 and helps deepen self-awareness and openness to growth in recovery.

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What Is the Purpose of Step 7 of AA?

The purpose of AA Step 7 is to help you develop a more humble view of yourself so you can ask a higher power, as you understand it, to remove your shortcomings.2

Learning humility isn’t always easy, but AA describes it as an important part of personal growth and recovery.2 In many areas of life, people are encouraged to feel proud of themselves, and that can be positive. However, in recovery, pride can sometimes make it harder to change.

As you begin to let go of pride and practice humility, you may find it easier to accept support. With a more humble mindset, you might feel more willing to acknowledge when you need help and more open to receiving it from others and your higher power.2

How to Complete Step 7 of AA

Step 7 can feel challenging because humility often takes emotional maturity and honesty. You might find it easier to do this work when you practice self-compassion, which means treating yourself with kindness when you make mistakes.3

Your AA group may provide you with a worksheet to help guide you, and you can discuss this Step with your sponsor. You can also read more about it and other AA guidance in the book, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions.4

These tips can help you understand how to complete Step 7 of AA:

  • Reflect on your Step 4 inventory. Recall the shortcomings you identified when you “made a searching and fearless moral inventory of (y)ourself.”5 Revisiting these patterns can help you stay grounded in the work you’ve already done.
  • Examine your motivations. Consider how your shortcomings may have influenced your decisions or prevented you from reaching your goals.2
  • Practice humility. Notice how adopting a more humble mindset may make it easier to ask your higher power to remove your shortcomings.2
  • Stay open to support. Recognize where guidance from others and your higher power could help you grow and move forward.2
  • Talk through ego defenses. Speak with your sponsor, a therapist, or another trusted person about the patterns that have gotten in your way. Ego defenses like denial, rationalization, and projection are ways your mind protects you from discomfort, but they can also keep you stuck.3
  • Connect through meditation, prayer, or reflection. Engage in meditation, prayer, or reflection to deepen your connection with your higher power and ask for help in letting go of your shortcomings.2

How Step 7 of AA Fits Into Your Recovery Journey

Step 7 is preceded by Step 6, which states that we "were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character."5 To humbly ask your higher power to remove your shortcomings, it helps to first become willing to let go of them.

Step 8 follows Step 7, and states that we "made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all."5 As you work on Step 7, you may feel more prepared for Step 8 and the process of seeking forgiveness and making amends.

How to Find a 12-Step AA Program

You can find an in-person or virtual AA meeting through the AA website, which provides contact information for resources that have meeting lists in your location and the surrounding area.

If you're in rehab, you may start learning about AA in group therapy or group meetings at your treatment center. During rehab, you might also receive 12-Step facilitation therapy. This approach often includes weekly sessions that can help you learn about AA and prepare to take part in meetings.6

Many people also participate in AA meetings as part of their aftercare plan.6 Aftercare is ongoing support that can help you maintain progress after formal treatment.7 Depending on your needs and preferences, it can include a mix of options, such as individual or group therapy, telephone or technology-based support, or sober living. Sober living homes are substance-free residences that support people in recovery.7,8

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If you are already involved in a 12-Step program or you'd like to join one, you might also benefit from rehab. Rehab can help you safely stop drinking alcohol, build and practice new skills, and support a healthier and more productive life.6

You'll first receive an evaluation of your unique needs. Based on this assessment, your rehab journey might include one or more levels of care, such as:

Ready to take the next step in your recovery? Use Recovery.com to compare 12-Step–friendly treatment options in your area so you can find a program that fits your needs, values, and goals for long-term sobriety.


FAQs

You can practice Step 7 of AA daily by reflecting on your behavior, staying aware of your shortcomings, and asking your higher power for help in letting them go. Many people use prayer, meditation, or journaling, and regularly check in with a sponsor to stay accountable.

In Step 7, humility means accepting that you’re not perfect and being willing to ask for help. It involves letting go of ego and recognizing that growth often requires support from others and a higher power.

Step 7 is important because it shifts the focus from recognizing shortcomings to actively working to release them. It helps deepen self-awareness and encourages openness to change, which supports long-term recovery.

No, you don’t have to follow a specific religion to complete Step 7. AA encourages you to define a higher power in your own way, which can be spiritual, personal, or even based on the support of the group.

After completing Step 7, you move on to Step 8, which involves making a list of people you have harmed and becoming willing to make amends. The humility and self-awareness developed in Step 7 can help you approach this next step with greater honesty, accountability, and readiness to repair relationships.

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