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Many people who struggle with anxiety turn to alcohol to cope with their stress. But what if that drink makes anxiety worse? We explore the self-perpetuating relationship between alcohol and anxiety, and provide insights and resources to help you manage both.
People use the term “anxiety” so casually, we often forget what it means. One man in recovery, Leon, reminds us how profoundly it can impact your life:
When I’m feeling extremely anxious I can’t talk to people; I can’t work; I can’t get out of my bedroom; I don’t even want to move; It’s horrible…It’s one of the hardest things that I’ve ever experienced.
Those who use alcohol to cope with their anxiety often find that it bounces back even stronger when they stop drinking. “When I stopped drinking, I had a lot of experiences of up-and-down anxiety,”1 says Leon.
Alcohol is a depressant, meaning it slows down the central nervous system. Initially, this makes people feel calm and relaxed—which is why so many people who live with anxiety turn to alcohol for symptom relief. In the short term, drinking makes it seem like social inhibitions are lowering and worries are fading away. But this calming effect is short-lived—and misleading—because alcohol makes anxiety worse down the line.
Kevin O’Hara, who is in alcohol recovery, recalls how he used to rely on alcohol to deal with social anxiety:2
When I was younger and just I wasn’t able to speak to anyone—especially women—alcohol provided that lubricant that I needed at the time.
Unfortunately, alcohol’s initial calming effects don’t last. Long-term alcohol use upsets the harmony of chemicals in your brain, such as GABA and serotonin, that regulate your mood. This worsens anxiety symptoms over time, creating a cycle that leads to dependence. As alcohol wears off and anxiety intensifies, you might start to drink even more. This cycle feeds anxiety and increases alcohol use. Before you know it, this can ramp up into a full-blown alcohol use disorder that further complicates your ability to manage your anxiety.
Leaning on alcohol in awkward moments also keeps us from learning the social skills we need to function without it. “You’re sort of priming yourself now for problems later on,” says O’Hara, “because you’re using an outside substance for a problem which is inside, and that is always going to cause problems.”
Not only does heavy drinking disrupt brain chemistry in the long term, but it can also trigger immediate anxiety spikes. As your blood alcohol concentration (BAC) drops, your body goes into alcohol withdrawal. This results in a cascade of physical symptoms which might include sweating, tremors, and racing heart rate (which can be very anxiety-provoking). Heavy drinking also disrupts your sleep quality, and poor sleep is a major risk factor for anxiety. The physical effects of withdrawal combined with poor sleep quality can make your anxiety feel much worse both during and after heavy drinking episodes.
Anxiety symptoms can make life feel so much harder, and it’s common for people who struggle with this condition to self-medicate with alcohol. And understandably so—the initial calming effects of alcohol can feel like a welcome escape from the overwhelm of anxious spiraling.
Danay, who founded Sober Girls Houston while in alcohol recovery, recalls how she started drinking to cope with academic pressures3 in high school:
I went to a private school, and if I didn’t get an A there was a problem. So I always felt like I had the weight of the world on my shoulders. I was pretty hard on myself if I didn’t do everything exactly right every time. Drinking was like a way out of it. I mean, that’s all I saw, right? Everybody just got a drink when they were stressed out or when they had a lot going on. It was just what you did to survive, so I didn’t think anything different.
The relationship between alcohol and anxiety is so normalized that we often don’t even see it.
At first, you might drink to find temporary anxiety relief. But the problem with using substances to cope is that they ultimately don’t work—and you’re often left with an even bigger problem. Alcohol weakens your body’s natural ability to regulate anxiety. And as it wears off after a night of drinking, anxiety rebounds4 and intensifies. When that happens, it creates a strong urge to drink again to relieve your alcohol-induced anxiety. As tolerance builds over time, you have to drink more to get the same calming effect. This cycle eventually becomes deeply entrenched, making both problems worse.
Co-occurring disorders (also known as dual diagnoses)—mental health conditions that occur alongside substance use disorders—are notoriously complex and require specialized treatment to address both conditions at the same time. The best way to avoid this scenario is to find healthier alternatives to drinking, such as therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes, and talk therapy, as a way of managing anxiety.
The connection between alcohol and anxiety goes deeper than the temporary stress relief you feel after a few drinks.
Alcohol disrupts the chemical balance in your brain. The neurotransmitter GABA, for example, has calming properties. Alcohol mimics the effects of GABA, which reduces anxiety in the moment. But over time, alcohol causes your brain to produce less GABA—and fewer GABA receptors.5 The same process happens with serotonin, dopamine, and other mood-regulating brain chemicals. This builds long-term anxiety by reducing your natural capacity to manage stress.
While alcohol’s drowsiness-inducing effects might help you fall asleep, it negatively impacts your sleep quality throughout the night. Alcohol reduces the amount of time we spend in deep sleep, which in turn affects our mood and ability to regulate emotions. Poor sleep quality due to alcohol6 makes you feel sleepy throughout the day, affects your productivity, and worsens anxiety symptoms. Chronic sleep disturbances make anxiety far worse and create a feedback loop where poor sleep due to alcohol fuels anxiety, which then further disrupts sleep.
Alcohol-related behaviors can also fuel anxiety. For someone with social anxiety, for example, drinking might seem like a welcome icebreaker. But those relaxed inhibitions can be a double-edged sword, as poor decision-making and awkward interactions only reinforce social anxieties once the fog clears. Depending on alcohol to be social can make you afraid to socialize without it, which limits your scope of connections as your social circle narrows to focus on party friends.
We don’t often think our behaviors pose risks to those around us, but problematic drinking will eventually affect our friends.
The behavioral patterns that stem from heavy drinking are notorious for ruining relationships. Drinking destabilizes our mood, making us more irritable and less likely to show up to our relationships as our best selves. You might be more short-tempered or cynical for days following a heavy drinking session—which, if you drink several times a week, means your mood is affected virtually all the time. The effects of this get worse as alcohol dependence sets in: “Evidence suggests that alcoholics experience increasing dysphoria7 as a consequence of alcohol consumption,” say researchers.
Drinking causes us to act impulsively, without regard for consequences, or without even realizing what we’re doing, leaving us with an embarrassing emotional hangover as we try to remember our actions the night before.
All of this strains relationships and makes us feel isolated and more socially anxious. This erodes the very support systems that are so important when we’re changing our drinking behaviors and learning to manage anxiety.
Spotting a co-occurring problem with alcohol and anxiety can be tricky. Here are some signs to watch for:
If you notice any of these signs, it might be time to reevaluate your relationship with alcohol.
Physical symptoms can also signal co-occurring alcohol use and anxiety disorders. These might include tremors, sweating, or difficulty sleeping, which can be caused by both anxiety and alcohol withdrawal.
Emotional signs include chronic worry, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. Panic attacks8 (a hallmark of anxiety disorders) might also become more frequent. If these symptoms worsen with alcohol use or persist even when you’re sober, it may be time to seek professional help.
Breaking the cycle of anxiety and alcohol dependence is a complex process and is best taken on with professional support.
If you require alcohol detox, it ’s important to do so in a medically supervised environment. Alcohol withdrawals can be highly dangerous and should not be attempted alone. You can contact a detox center for an over-the-phone assessment to determine your level of need.
In a reputable addiction and mental health treatment program therapists provide a safe space to explore the underlying causes of both conditions, teach coping skills to manage anxiety without the use of alcohol, and help you implement lifestyle changes that sustainably support your well-being. Rehabs offer programs at different levels of intensiveness and use a variety of treatment approaches (which may include medication management, talk therapy, and complementary therapies) according to your needs. Your treatment team can help you determine the most effective path toward getting—and staying—well.
For people who struggle with both alcohol use disorder and anxiety, the most effective treatment is a comprehensive program that specializes in dual diagnosis treatment. These programs address both conditions simultaneously and recognize the synergy between them. Therapists experienced in treating co-occurring disorders can tailor interventions to treat symptoms and address the root causes of anxiety and alcohol addiction. This might include therapies like CBT alongside medication management for anxiety, as well as relapse prevention strategies for staying sober long-term. Integrated programs can be highly effective, healing underlying problems and teaching the skills you need to manage your anxiety and live a fulfilling, alcohol-free life.
As part of your treatment plan, doctors might prescribe medications to target anxiety symptoms,9 such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). These medications may also reduce cravings for alcohol.
Your treatment team might also recommend medications like buspirone or hydroxyzine to address anxiety and potentially decrease alcohol use as a coping mechanism.
Medications should only be prescribed by a qualified prescribing doctor after in-depth psychological testing to determine your specific needs and best course of action.
Not everyone is open to medication, and that’s okay. But for those who are, it can be effective for managing both alcohol and anxiety. Medication is most effective when combined with psychotherapy,10 which helps you learn coping strategies and make lasting behavioral changes. Medication management can help you get symptoms under control so that talk therapy is more effective.
Mindfulness practices and stress reduction techniques can help you manage anxiety without relying on alcohol. Mindfulness meditation helps you cultivate self-awareness as you learn to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment. This can also help you place some distance between feeling triggered and acting on it, meaning you’ll gain more control over your reactions as you learn to self-regulate your emotions.
Stress reduction techniques can include deep breathing exercises, which slow your heart rate and activate your body’s natural relaxation response. Spending time in nature, taking up a new hobby (or rediscovering an old one), and getting regular, good-quality sleep all support your emotional well-being. By making these practices a regular part of your life, you’ll build resilience and get better at managing your anxiety.
Long-term recovery from anxiety requires a strong foundation of healthy habits. These lifestyle changes include getting regular exercise, nourishing your body with a nutrient-dense, anti-inflammatory diet, and improving your sleep hygiene. Doing things that nourish your spirit and allow your mind and body to recharge increases your capacity for handling stress and sets you up for success in daily life.
No one should fight anxiety or alcohol addiction alone—strong support systems are key to long-term success. As you make these life changes, surround yourself with friends and family who understand your struggles and offer nonjudgmental support. Consider joining a local or online support group specifically focused on anxiety. Sharing your experiences openly and hearing those of others reminds you that you’re not alone.
There are times when it’s okay to pull back from situations that make us uncomfortable, and times when it’s helpful to push through to achieve your goals. O’Hara says he finds it helpful to put himself in social situations without alcohol11 even if it feels uncomfortable at times:
You have to put yourself into situations where, if there was no alcohol around, you might normally feel awkward about it. But every time you do that, you learn something. You gain a more confidence in yourself and your abilities.
These hotlines, websites, and support groups are great starting points to learn more about co-occurring anxiety and alcohol use disorder and find the help you need:
If you’re struggling with anxiety and alcohol addiction, a treatment center can help you uncover the cause of both conditions and make a plan to address them. Search co-occurring disorder treatment centers and reach out to their admissions teams directly to find the right program for you.
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