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Rita Milios, LCSW, "The Mind Mentor," combines the science of neuro-biology, traditional psychotherapy techniques, and spiritual growth techniques gleaned from ancient wisdom traditions to help people re-program old, entrenched, self-defeating habits and attitudes and successfully treat anxiety, depression, addictions (substances, people, things), eating issues, relationship issues, trauma, life transition issues and grief.
Do you put in a lot of hours at your job? Do you find yourself thinking about work, even when you are not there? Do you feel uncomfortable being away from your work for an extended period, even if you are vacationing?
Uh oh…you may be a workaholic.
The term workaholism was coined in 1971 by minister and psychologist Wayne Oates, who described his own tendencies toward a “compulsion or uncontrollable need to work incessantly” in his book, Confessions of a Workaholic.
Barbara Killinger Ph.D, author of the PsychologyToday.com blog , defines a workaholic as “a work-obsessed individual who gradually becomes emotionally crippled and addicted to power and control in a compulsive drive to gain approval and public recognition of success.”
Malissa Clark, PHD, assistant professor of psychology and director of the Work and Family Experience Research Lab at the University of Georgia, explains in an American Psychological Association (www.apa.org)Science Brief, that workaholics commonly display the following characteristics:
Is workaholism more than just working hard and working long hours? Yes!
The difference is that a hard worker, despite the rigors of work, will be emotionally present for family members, co-workers and friends, and will maintain a healthy balance between his/her work and personal responsibility. A workaholic, however, will allow important work/life boundaries to become blurred or broken.
Interestingly, studies show that workaholism and the number of hours worked per week are only moderately correlated.
A more relevant correlation is the motivation underlying workaholic behavioral tendencies. While engaged workers are driven to work because they find work intrinsically pleasurable, workaholics are driven to work because they feel an inner compulsion to work – for example, they feel that they “should” be working more than they actually need to.
Workaholics appear to relate primarily to maladaptive forms of perfectionism. According to Dr. Killinger, there are several sub-types of workaholics, each with specific traits:
In May 25, 2016, researchers at the University of Bergen in Norway published in the online journal PLOS ONE, an article titled The Relationships between Workaholism and Symptoms of Psychiatric Disorders: A Large-Scale Cross-Sectional Study.
The key findings established a link between workaholism and several psychiatric disorders:
Researchers surmised that individuals with ADHD might compensate for their inattentiveness and lack of focus by over-working, in order to meet the expectations required by their job. People with obsessive-compulsive tendencies – such as a need to arrange things in certain ways to help maintain a sense of control, or a tendency to obsess over details – could be predisposed to developing workaholism.
It has been shown that workaholism, in some cases, develops from an attempt to reduce uncomfortable feelings of anxiety and depression. Because working hard is praised and honored in modern society, and it serves as a legitimate method for combating or alleviating negative feelings, it is one way that anxious or depressed people can feel better about themselves and feel more at peace.
Test your own workaholic tendencies using the Bergen Work Addiction Scale, first published in April 2012, in the Scandinavian Journal of Psychology:
Answer the seven questions below, using one of the following choices:
Answering “often” or “always” to four or more of the preceding questions indicates that you may be work-addicted.
To reduce your tendency toward workaholism, try incorporating the following suggestions:
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