A person’s career and family are two of the most important things in their life. When addiction takes hold, it can damage both. For Chris, his life was on a hectic cycle of working, doing household chores, and doing drugs, with no time for a social life or family activities. As a result, his career stalled, he was passed over for promotions, and his family relationships were strained. He knew something had to change, and that change came in the form of seeking treatment for substance abuse.
Chris’s experience highlights how addiction can erode the foundational pillars of a person’s life, from their professional aspirations to their most intimate family connections. It serves as a powerful reminder that addiction isn’t just a personal struggle; it’s a force that can disrupt and dismantle every aspect of a person’s world. In this article, we’ll explore the specific ways addiction can impact your career and family and how treatment can help you reclaim your life.
Addiction can have a significant, detrimental impact on your career. When you’re using Addiction can have a profound and damaging effect on your professional life. As a person’s focus shifts from work to their next opportunity to use, job performance inevitably declines. For Chris, this meant his career was “at a halt” and he was consistently “passed over for promotions.” This kind of professional stagnation is a common consequence of substance use.
The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) highlights the significant impact of substance use on the workplace, including increased accidents, absenteeism, and lower productivity1. These issues can not only harm your professional reputation but can also put you and your colleagues at risk. Over time, these behaviors can lead to disciplinary action, job loss, and a significant derailment of your career.
Common signs that substance abuse is impacting work performance include:
The good news is that many employers are now more equipped to support employees struggling with substance abuse. The Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) provides certain protections, and many companies offer Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) that can provide confidential support and resources.
Addiction doesn’t just affect the person using substances; it creates a ripple effect that touches everyone in their circle. Chris’s experience with his family “arguing and just wasn’t good” is a familiar story for many. The trust, communication, and emotional bonds that hold families together can all be severely damaged.
Addiction’s effects on families can include:
Families often fall into a cycle of enabling behavior, where they unknowingly support the addiction by making excuses or covering up for the person using. This can prevent the individual from facing the consequences of their actions, delaying their decision to seek help. However, as Chris’s story shows, a crisis point, such as losing out on a promotion or experiencing family strife, can become the catalyst for seeking change.
Chris’s expectation of treatment was that it would simply be a “30 day to dry you out,” but he quickly learned it was much more than that. Treatment, especially at a center like Simonds Recovery Centers, is designed to address the underlying emotional and psychological needs that fuel addiction. It provides a comprehensive approach to healing, not just from the substance but from the behaviors and thought patterns that led to its use.
Treatment programs offer a variety of tools and therapies, including:
These tools are not just for the time spent in treatment; they are for a lifetime of recovery. Chris learned this firsthand, as the lessons from his treatment “still stick with me.” He now has a foundation to build a new, sober life.
One of the most profound lessons Chris learned in treatment was the importance of “sitting with the uncomfortability.” This is a core concept in recovery. For many people, substance use is a way to escape or numb uncomfortable emotions, such as stress, anxiety, or sadness. In recovery, you learn to face these feelings head-on without resorting to drugs or alcohol.
This is a skill that takes practice and resilience. It means allowing yourself to feel difficult emotions without letting them lead to destructive consequences. As Chris wisely states, you must “don’t let short term emotions make long lasting consequences.” This advice applies to everything from a fleeting craving to a frustrating day at work or a disagreement with a loved one. Learning to tolerate discomfort is a sign of immense personal growth and a cornerstone of long-term sobriety.
Ways to practice sitting with uncomfortability in recovery:
Chris’s final piece of advice is perhaps the most important: “Just go ahead and do it. Give it a shot.” The decision to seek treatment can be intimidating, but the rewards are immeasurable. It’s an investment in your future, your family, and your overall well-being.
Taking the first step can feel overwhelming, but remember that many people have walked this path before you. There are resources available to help you navigate the process, from finding the right treatment center to understanding your insurance coverage. Your recovery journey starts with a single, courageous choice to ask for help.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. (2022). Drug-Free Workplace Toolkit. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. https://www.samhsa.gov/substance-use/drug-free-workplace/employer-resources
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. (2019). Tips for talking with your child about substance abuse. SAMHSA.
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