


Rita Milios, LCSW, "The Mind Mentor," combines the science of neuro-biology, traditional psychotherapy techniques, and spiritual growth techniques gleaned from ancient wisdom traditions to help people re-program old, entrenched, self-defeating habits and attitudes and successfully treat anxiety, depression, addictions (substances, people, things), eating issues, relationship issues, trauma, life transition issues and grief.




Rita Milios, LCSW, "The Mind Mentor," combines the science of neuro-biology, traditional psychotherapy techniques, and spiritual growth techniques gleaned from ancient wisdom traditions to help people re-program old, entrenched, self-defeating habits and attitudes and successfully treat anxiety, depression, addictions (substances, people, things), eating issues, relationship issues, trauma, life transition issues and grief.
What does it mean to “recover” from substance addiction? SAMSHA, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, defines recovery as “a process of change through which an individual achieves abstinence and improved health, wellness and quality of life.”
If you are – or have been –in recovery, you know that it is a complex and very individualized process. But there are some common components and common strategies that can be helpful to everyone in recovery. SAMSHA, in connection with the National Mental Health Information Center (U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services) outlined the following 10 Fundamental Components of Recovery.
The path to recovery starts with an individual decision and an individual commitment. The desire to recover and the dedication to make the changes that are necessary cannot be given to you. So self-direction is essential. Self-direction means that you are ultimately in charge of deciding what works best for you, taking into account your unique needs and circumstances. It involves developing an inner authority and the willingness to take responsibility for your own choices and actions.
Recovery is an individualized process; it must be based on each individual’s personal strengths, experiences, needs and cultural/social frameworks. Therefore, any decision-making you do about how to start and/or implement your recovery plan should take into account your individualized needs and preferences.
Recovery should never negate your personal empowerment. Even if you enter a program that requires living in a closed environment for a given amount of time, you can still maintain your personal empowerment by being a partner in all aspects of your recovery planning and implementation.
Because your recovery affects your entire life, it needs to be holistic, encompassing other aspects of your life, such as housing needs, employment, education, social networks, and family and community interaction.
You are probably aware that recovery is not a linear, step-by-step process. Rather, it often has stops and starts and occasional setbacks. It is important that you do not get discouraged if you find that you have gotten “off track.” Simply recognize the need to readjust your strategy and act immediately to do so.
A successful recovery plan is strength-based. Recovery involves not only ceasing the usage of substances, it also involves increasing your capacity for resilience so that you can better weather life’s storms. It involves acquiring appropriate coping skills and upgrading your mental and emotional “toolbox.”
Peer support in recovery has been shown to be a valuable asset. Peers can provide wisdom obtained from common experience and offer supportive feedback. They are a source of judgment-free support and understanding that are essential for building confidence and self-esteem.
Gaining or re-gaining the respect of others is often a crucial element in the recovery process. Acquiring the acceptance of family, friends, peers and the community goes a long way in re-establishing the recovering person’s self-acceptance and belief in themselves. Stigma or discrimination, on the other hand, undermines the recovering individual’s self-respect.
Just as self-direction is a key factor in starting and maintaining a recovery lifestyle, self-responsibility is the core mindset that sustains it. Recovery is mostly an “inside” job, requiring you to monitor and manage your own thoughts, feelings and behaviors in ways that support your recovery goals over time.
Recovery starts with a premise of hope…hope for healing, hope for a better future. Hope is a catalyst and a motivator. It can be self-sustained by improving coping skills and gaining mental and emotional resiliency. It can also be nurtured by having supportive friends, family, peers and community. Hope is essential throughout the recovery process.
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